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Your man gets a Valentines Day gift from someone else…?
She lives in Texas, you both live together in Illinois. She is married with children & has a jealous husband she’s hiding the friendship with your man from. She sends your man a Zippo lighter with his initials engraved on one side & his lucky number on the other for Valentines Day. What do you think of this gesture? Figuring… $30 for the whole thing, was it too much for just a friend you’ve been talking to on a personal level for a month? He’s never talked to her with you in the house. He told you about her, and her husband. You accept this gift, though you don’t like it. He asked me to pick up lighter fluid for it, and I said, “You’re not planning on bringing it out at the poker game! Are you?” He knows you don’t want him to (people are going to be there who already know it’s a gift from another girl for V-Day), he does any way, and uses it as his lucky charm on top of his poker hand all night. What’s the proper reaction from me to this action? What would you think?
Sorry but friends of the opposite sex don’t get each other Valentine’s presents, especially when they’re already in a relationship! Sounds like they’re screwing to me. You’re husband is trying to pull a fast one on you. Oh you already know about her, oh the husband knows too, oh she just happened to send me a Vday gift, oh I think i’ll use that as my lucky charm. That is disrespect, plain and simple! How would he feel if you got chocolates and flowers from a man whose suppose to be just a “friend!” I bet he’d hemmorage a nerve! Trust your gut instinct, and don’t let your husband disrespect you in front of your face and other company like that. Call it for what it is, he’s cheating (emotionally & or physically) and you won’t tolerate it anymore.
Here’s what you do. Get homewrecker’s telephone number, and tell her husband how kind of her to send your married man a Valentine’s present. Because chances are, hubby doesn’t know how friendly wifey is being with other folks men. Then let your husband know, he can either come clean with you or the divorce courts. Take your pick!
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